Re-Entry to MY Gender Identity

Alternative title: The queer pick-me girl that eventually picked herself

I might date myself here, but I didn’t find out I was pan until I was 14, and ace until I was 23. Back then, that was normal. I am not sure whether the realization of queerness came first, or the gender confusion. All I remember is that there was a girl I liked, but I didn’t really know what to do with the crush. There was no narrative…